Dating a Transman – Taking the Extra Care

If you are fairly new to transexual dating, you will find a couple of things that are similar with regular dating. If you think about it, there really isn’t that much of a difference between dating a transman and dating a woman. Like dating any other women, you should remember to treat your transman date accordingly. However, things can be quite different when it comes to dating a transsexual online. When dating transsexuals online, you should be extra careful in order for you to avoid getting tricked or scammed. This is not only true in cases of transman dating. In fact, there are even more scammers in straight dating sites compared to transsexual dating sites.

Taking extra care is very important if you are dating transsexuals online. Dating sites are great targets for tricksters and scammers nowadays. Knowing this, we should always be careful when we are initiating contact or responding to someone online. Here are some few tips on how to avoid getting tricked and scammed online:

1. Ask for a picture

Ask your date for other pictures aside from the ones that she has on her profile. Pictures will give you a better idea of how your date actually looks like in person. It is only given that they will put up their best pictures in their profiles in transman dating sites so ask for ones that are more candid. If your date refuses to share photos with you, she might be hiding something. This is an indication that he/she can’t be fully trusted. Cease any contact that you have as soon as you can.

2. Only meet with your date when you think you are ready

The great thing about dating online is you will not be pressured or obliged to meet with your date if you think that you are not ready yet. If you want to find out more about your partner, you will be able to do so without having to explain yourself. You can do so without dealing with any pressure. If your partner forces you to go out on a date, chances are that there is something fishy going on. In cases like these, trust your instincts. If your instincts tell you that there is something wrong, ditch your partner and move on to the next one.

3. Observe your partner’s behavior

You will get an idea of what you partner is truly like if you are communicating with her in a daily basis. Pay attention to her moods swings, inconsistencies and attempts to control you. If you don’t like being controlled and pressured and your partner shows signs that they are trying to do so, make it a point to show them that you do not like this kind of attitude. If they still persist, ditch them. Also watch out for inconsistencies. Being inconsistent is an indication that they are hiding something. Do not wait until it is too late before you do something about this.

Lastly, if you think that something is wrong when dating a transman, do not hesitate to leave or cease your communication with her. Never jump in to something that you are not sure about. If you feel that something is wrong, chances are that your hunch is right. Always keep in mind that you are not obliged to answer to anybody but yourself.